I usually don't like the "Keep Calm" quotes, but this one works  for me!  For a few days now my spirit has been tried and tested.  But today I stand with a firm resolve and commitment to the goals that I believe are best for my little family.  There will always be people trying to stop you from acheiving your goals and there will be people helping you acheive your goals.  Make sure you surround yourself with the people who are helping, not hindering.  It doesn't make you a bad person to let go of negative people, it makes you a smart person.