Hope trumps doubt everytime

Hope trumps doubt everytime

Live Brightly

Live Brightly

Thursday, February 13, 2014

3 Post kinda day


 I wanted to post something about being confident.  Whether you are a man or woman:

A Confident Person is a Beautiful Person

Quote 1
Quote 2
My past choices and circumstances left me feeling very unconfident.  I made huge mistakes and have paid for them both emotionally, financially and physically. (Karma came, as she always does)  I have trusted many people that I  found out later that maybe I shouldn't have trusted.  In any case, my ability to love, my ability to trust and my self confidence is returning - slowly.  However, I want to make sure that my confidence returns along with humility.  When I smile, people see a beautiful confident person - not a conceited egotistical person.  Confidence not Cockiness.

The ability to say that my confidence is returning not because of what I have done but because of what other people have done for me.  The forgiveness that special people have given me, the people that came to our rescue - the people that have spent time building me back up from being torn down.  It is because of all of the friendships and charity of people in my life that I am finding confidence in myself and in others again.

Moral of the Story: Quote #1: I don't think you can be confident without being proud of who you are.  If your not proud of yourself, your choices and your experiences.  Make amends with who you need to make amends with.

Quote #2: A unhappy / un-confident  person lashes out at others, a happy confident person feels empathy for the unhappy/unconfident person.  Show empathy toward those who hurt you, you become stronger and happier and you just might help another person along the way.

Quote #3:  This is my own quote (by the way)  I created this a long time ago before my "life experiences" hit me. Always remember to giggle.



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